LILY LOMELI CREATOR OF STRUCTURAL CALM™

It’s not the doing. It’s the anticipating.

It’s not the doing. It’s the anticipating.

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You don't need to change your whole life.

Maybe there's just one thing you know needs to change.


A focused 4-week 1:1 coaching experience built around one real situation in your life.

 

For the woman who's building the life she's going to live in, 

and doesn't want to carry the same pattern into it.


4 weeks · 1 situation · 1:1 coaching


$600

Introductory investment · $750 beginning January 2027

START YOUR ONE CHANGE →

 Complete a short intake. I'll personally review it and let you know if One Change™ is the right fit. 

You probably already know what it is.

 Maybe it's the relationship you can't stop overthinking.

The boundary you know you need, but can't seem to hold.

The situation you keep replaying in your head.

 The responsibility you keep taking on, even when you wish you didn't have to. 

The behavior you promised yourself you'd stop... only to find yourself doing it again.

Or maybe you can't quite name the pattern yet.

You just know:

“I don't want to keep doing this the same way.”

 You don't have to work on everything.

Let's start there.

START YOUR ONE CHANGE →

One situation. Four weeks. Real work.

 One Change™ isn't about fixing your entire life in four weeks.


It's about taking one real situation you're experiencing right now and understanding what's underneath it.

What's really happening underneath it?

 What's happening?

What keeps pulling you back into the same pattern?

What might that pattern be protecting?

What would become possible if you had another choice?

Because sometimes you already know what you should do.

The missing piece is understanding why it's so difficult to do something different.

 That's where we work. 

START YOUR ONE CHANGE →

HOW IT WORKS

How One Change works

 1. Choose your One Change.
Start with the situation, behavior, relationship dynamic, decision, or pattern that's taking up more space in your life than you want it to. 

 2. Understand what's underneath it.
We'll look beyond what you should be doing and explore what keeps the pattern in place. 

 3. Work on it together for four weeks.
Our sessions stay focused on the situation you came in with while we work with what happens in your actual life between sessions.  

 4. Build a different choice.
The goal isn't perfection. It's getting to the point where the old pattern is no longer your only option. 

 You came in with one thing you wanted to change.

We work on what has been making it so hard to change it.

START YOUR ONE CHANGE →
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Moving From “Doing It All” to Doing It Different

Duarte, California, United States

424 240 0615 - coachlily.btrnsfrmd111@gmail.com

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